Most say changelings aren't born with a set gender. This statement is only partially true, as changelings can "change" into any gender there is, but we are born with two mindsets. Either a connected mind, which I guess take on a more "male-ish" appearance or an individual mindset that can choose when to connect to said connection, which are the very rare female-minded changelings, who mostly grow into their destined position as a queen. I say most, because I… am the only female changeling who didn't became the queen.